Historian Ken Burns makes an interesting observation about how people referred to our nation before and after the Civil War. Prior to the war, the normal expression was "The United States are . . ." But after the war, the more common way to refer to the nation was "The United States is..." We know that the Civil War was fought largely over the issue of States' rights, and the current usage ("The United States is . . .") reflects the outcome of the war and the resultant emphasis on the union of States.

Words mean things, and we see something similar in the way certain people refer to the church. Specifically, we hear some who refer to the local congregation as "they" or "them," and others who speak of it as "we" or "us."

Those who speak of the church as "they" or "them" are showing a certain detachment from the other members. These folks typically like to criticize and complain about what "they" are doing. And, while such complainers are quick to find fault with "them," they are very seldom found helping to resolve the problems. There is much discussion of what "they" did or didn't do, but there is precious little activity on the part of the one doing the criticizing. We think these members would do well to read what Jesus taught about "beams and motes" (Matt. 7:3-5).

We're thankful for those who consistently refer to the local church as "we" or "us." They show that they are a working part of the congregation, and are making a contribution to what is happening. And, while there will always be things that need to be changed and improved about "us," these folks know that its important that "we" all do our part to accomplish this growth. After all, "we" are a "body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth" (Eph. 4:16).

Take this test: Do you refer to the church as "they/them," or do you speak of "we/us?" The answer to that question will tell a lot about you and your heart.